Frequently Asked Questions
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We want our wedding day filled with pure joy, and that starts with the people we invite into the room. This is a full, proud celebration of our life together as a gay couple. If that doesn't feel like something you can celebrate without reservation, we kindly ask that you do not attend.
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The RSVP deadline is February 1st, 2027.
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The welcome party dress code is dressy casual. Think a sundress, a nice top with linen pants, or a relaxed button-down. We'll mostly be outside (weather-permitting)!
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The wedding dress code is garden party chic. You might be thinking, WTF is that? Don’t worry, we’ll tell you! Please see the sections of this Pinterest board.
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The ceremony will begin at 3pm. Please plan to arrive by 2:45 at the latest.
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We will have a shuttle going from the various hotels and accommodations to the venue for the ceremony, and back to each hotel at the end of the reception.
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The wedding ceremony and reception will be outside, weather-permitting.
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During the ceremony, we ask that you silence your phones and keep them tucked away. This moment is one we want to share with you fully, and having your eyes and hearts with us means everything. Our photographer will be capturing the day beautifully, and we promise you'll have plenty of photos to look back on together.
During the cocktail hour and reception, feel free to snap away to your heart’s content! We'd love to see the day through your eyes.
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We've done our best to include plus ones wherever we could! If your invitation lists a guest, we'd love for them to join us. If not, we kindly ask that you stick to the names on your invite, as we're working with a limited guest list.
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We understand that everyone is traveling from far away and making this a full family vacation, which may mean your kids will be tagging along for the trip. If that's the case, please reach out and confirm with us directly so we can let you know what works and plan accordingly to make sure everyone is taken care of!
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We are committed to making sure every single one of our guests can eat. Please let us know as soon as possible what your allergies and/or restrictions are, and we will plan for it.